My sleep struggles are not new. I once asked my mom why there were so many pictures of me sleeping in my childhood photo album and her response was because you rarely napped so I took pictures of you sleeping to remind myself you really did sleep. One of my favorite pictures of young Abbie is me sitting on the couch with a book in my lap and my neck at such an odd angle it looks like it could be broken.
Not surprisingly, I still fall asleep reading almost every.single.night.
Then I have to wake up and go to bed…and then try to fall back to sleep.
Then I’ll have a vivid dream and be wide awake wondering what it means….and then try to fall back to sleep.
Next up is stressing about how much more time until the alarm goes off…
If any of this sounds like you, you are not alone! I’ve spent months figuring out what works to help me sleep soundly, and most importantly to be able to get back to sleep. There have been trials and errors. I wish I could tell you the one super secret trick to always being well rested. Sadly there is no one magic cure all.
You are in good company if you can’t fall asleep, or stay asleep. I’ve read many articles looking for the one perfect solution with no luck. The Sleep Foundation has tons of good resources. Reading about the importance of sleep, with exercise and diet for our health made me set on finding a drug free solution.
The basics matter! And you can adapt the basics to you!
- Don’t eat two hours before bedtime….but experiment with what timing really works for you
- Limit electronics use to avoid the dreaded “blue light”…personally I prefer to read on my iPad rather than read a paper book with a bright overhead light or lamp on
- Establish a bedtime routine – journaling, prepping for the next day, meditating, etc
- Get regular exercise – if I miss too many days of exercise my legs are restless, I can’t fall asleep and I’m crankier than normal
- Practice meditation and yoga – even if you think it isn’t for you!
I’m finalizing my Yoga for Better Sleep program. In the meantime you can grab my free intro guide, with questions about your current sleep and a bedtime routine checklist.